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JenFu Cheng | all galleries >> Photo-a-Day Project >> june_2005 > June-24-2005
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June-24-2005

It was an eventful day.
Hello Lily Jude who decided to enter the World (as we know it) this morning. Dawn and Marc (as well as many of us) had been eagerly awaiting her arrival...she finally decided to humor us and make her entrance. The full head of hair was a surprise but how beautiful she is was no surprise at all.
I'm thankful for the opportunity to visit the Hudocks. It warmed my heart greatly.

In the evening, however, I had the responsibility to do what I dread the most in this career as a physician. I had to tell parents that their child had died. It was a child that required much care, patience, love...and this child received it during her life. I know her parents will feel this loss forever and my heart is heavy for them.

I saw my last patient as a Pediatric Rehabilitation Fellow today. It marked the end of my higher education (16 long years that have flown by since I left the halls of my high school).
I have just received my promotion and am now an Assistant Clinical Professor at the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey. I guess this marks a transition from student to teacher.
But, it was quite clear today that I, no doubt, will continue to be taught lessons by Life...whether I like it or not. I saw the beauty of a new life emerging today and can easily foresee the love and joy this individual will bring to her family and those with whom she will come into contact. In this photo, hopefully it is clear how tightly her parents will hold onto her as well as the great extent that she will reach towards them. It is a tragedy when such a connection is broken by the realities of life...when the loss of this connection becomes the source of suffering.
Those things we cannot control. But, what we can do is to hold on in our hearts to those we love a little tighter...I believe our World will be a little better for it.
Be Well.


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Guest 15-May-2006 18:57
Wow..amzing just beautiful..love the way you have chsen the focus point and the composition is perfect
Guest 26-Jun-2005 04:39
wonderful. Photo and sentiment!
Della Huff25-Jun-2005 18:26
This photo is amazing -- that little hand is a perfect symbol for the tenacity of life. However, like you describe in your caption, tenacity sometimes isn't all that it takes. But we all keep fighting, as you see every day in your job. Congrats on the promotion and on this photo! voted.
Guest 25-Jun-2005 16:25
JenFu, thanks for this photo today. First at all the caption is amazing it´s very phillosophycal and truly. We, as parents, have so many love to give to our kids. The problem is when we (as parents) don´t know how to express that love, and follow the wrong way wich could lead to the suffering of our kids. When all waht we need to do is just love them, hold them, kiss them and let them know how much we love them and that they allways could have us close.

About your photo I want to tell you that before reading your caption, your image made feel incredible and took me, inmediatly at, back in time when my kids were born 9 and 11 years ago, thank you for bringing back that feelings. the composition and Dof in your photo couldn´t be better and the sepia tone works great. I´m sure this could be a photo you would like to hang on your wall at your office.
Guest 25-Jun-2005 15:24
Wonderful photo... the DOF is great
Guest 25-Jun-2005 15:21
It's a beautiful photo. I'm sure the parents will cherish it. Congratulations on your new job!