photo sharing and upload picture albums photo forums search pictures popular photos photography help login
Linda A | all galleries >> Galleries >> Nailing jelly to the wall (and other stories) - 2009 diary > 21st May 2009 - protect your heart
previous | next
21-MAY-2009

21st May 2009 - protect your heart

I’ve had another of those strange things that I’ve said accidentally but realised the fullness of its truth only later.

Sometime over the last few days, DM has come into the kitchen while I’ve been working and chastised me for working too hard. He said “you’ve got to be careful and look after yourself”. I replied “I’m not very good at looking after myself, I’m much better at looking after other people.”

Yikes – another of those moments when the truth hits you in the face and you suddenly realise your own mistakes.

Once again, I’ve spent the entire day tiling, this time with an early start because I was pulled out of bed to do a little “mercy dash” by a friend – more of that later. When I arrived home, I started working almost immediately, which was an hour or more earlier than I’d normally get going.

I’ve finally finished the tiling today so took a stroll around our field with my camera late this afternoon and this shot makes me feel good. It’s basically nature protecting a young bracken shoot by curling its fledgling leaves around its sensitive core – just in case we have a late frost or some other disaster befalls it before it can establish and grow.

My moment of truth from earlier this week made me feel this is a good little reminder of what I should do for myself more often. I should MAKE time to go to the hairdressers, MAKE time to sit in a chair in the garden with a cup of tea, MAKE time to look around me more…..in other words, MAKE time for me. Protect my own heart/core/inner being/whatever you like to call it.

Canon EOS 5D
1/100s f/3.2 at 100.0mm iso100 full exif

other sizes: small medium original auto
share
Lee Rudd25-May-2009 17:39
I know how difficult it is to make time for yourself, and that makes it all the more important to do it..... I really like the details on the bracken
Guest 25-May-2009 15:06
Hmmmm you're finally telling yourself the stuff us nagging family and friends have been saying for aaaaages!! Now keep listening to yourself.
I saw this pic and thought "spooky" - I took one just like it yesterday, only it's nothing like it and, of course, yours is ooodles better:http://www.pbase.com/clazuk/image/112937840/large
Anyway, take a look at my gallery please, cos there are two baby additions you might like to squidge next time you're up here :)
Will drop you a proper line soon, life's a bit manic at the mo xxx
Michael Todd Thorpe25-May-2009 14:20
It is a difficult but necessary lesson to learn about yourself, Linda.
Gail Davison25-May-2009 13:24
John is right... if you don't look after yourself you won't be able to look after others!
JW25-May-2009 12:00
hear hear! Like the flight attendants say during the safety demonstration "if you have children, secure your OWN oxygen supply FIRST"! ;0)