Talk about Big Mamma spider! Look at the size of the tiny male on the abdomen of the female! The female is not that big either, about 8-10mm, while the male is about 3-4mm. Males are rarely seen, and you can see why! They are so small that they would easily escape notice. When I first looked at the female, I thought she had a bit of plant debris on her back. The male was so small that until I took the macro and looked at it on my camera, I didn't even know he was there.