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10-MAY-2007

Goodbye Old Girl

Thank you for your love and companionship for 16 wonderful years.

Several months ago we asked the vet when the right time would be - his answer - "You'll know".
On Monday evening it hit me like a bolt out of the blue and the time since then has been the most
miserable, soul searching, heart wrenching time of my life. Muffy wandered over to us, nudged us,
looked at us and the only thing I could think to say was "You've had enough, haven't you girl".
I knew a decision had to be made and yesterday at work was the turning point. I couldn't keep
it together anymore, came home called the vets (Melissa had to finish the conversation) and made
the appointment. Last night we went to Chatfield, one of Muffy's favorite local spots, as she
can cool down in the water. Luckily the 'beach' wasn't far from the car and once in the water
she just soaked up the coolness for what felt like an age. On the way home we got ourselves a meal,
with a little extra for Muffy, and for the first time in weeks we actually got to enjoy seeing her
looking keen for a snack. I suspect we enjoyed our last evening together more than Muffy did,
but somehow we needed that time to rekindle just a few of those precious moments we had in the
last 16 years and to feel we parted as our life together had been.
At the vets, during those final moments I was a wreck, but afterward we could see she was in a
comfortable long sleep, looking as peaceful, as serene as we'd ever known her.
Muffy's being cremated and we left a photo book with her of all of her adventures with us in Colorado.
I'm not a religious man, but I can somehow see her enjoying herself in all her prior glory again.

Hopefully this picture captures just a little of the spark she always had.


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melissa wickes 15-Dec-2009 17:53
This still makes me cry...
Guest 21-May-2007 10:35
Facing your journey sooner than later - thank you for sharing your experience. Best to you and yours.
Marni J. Bradford19-May-2007 00:07
I have tears in my eyes as I sit and read your story as it is almost identical to the one I shared with my boy Zak back in December. You have inspired me to put together a gallery of his photos, which I haven't had the courage to do until now. Thank you.
Greg Harp18-May-2007 02:18
Beautiful work and tribute. My condolences for your loss.
Guest 12-May-2007 17:04
Sorry for your loss Dave, I feel your sorrow. You gave her a great life.
Ann Cleeves12-May-2007 12:36
I share your sorrow.....I know it is heart rending deciding that the time is right. What a wonderful life she had with you.
Dan Ng11-May-2007 05:39
Dave, I've got tears in my eyes right now, but you did the right thing as difficult as it was. The image is a loving tribute to Muffy. Take care. V.
Sheila11-May-2007 04:34
A lovely tribute David.
I know exactly how you feel and am so sorry.
Guest 11-May-2007 03:08
Sorry for your loss, wonderful tribute.
Tricia11-May-2007 01:33
I am so sad for you and Melissa, I have tears running down my cheeks as I read your wonderful tribute. Rest in Peace Muffy.
Guest 11-May-2007 00:53
I don't even know what to say I'm so sorry. Peace be with you and your entire family my friend.
Linda Matta10-May-2007 22:15
Very lovely shot, you can see her gentleness.
Very hard times, indeed.
Take care.
Guest 10-May-2007 21:10
Lovely shot of poor old Muffy. Hope you don't mind but I have put an image of her,with you and Melissa, as a tribute to a much loved friend!Take care!
Jen Bixler10-May-2007 19:03
Wixx Family,
I got tears rolling down my cheeks...sorry for your loss.
Guest 10-May-2007 17:03
I am sorry to hear,take care.
Gayle P. Clement10-May-2007 16:57
Your love for Muffy has been evident in all of your wonderful photos. This must have been so hard for you.
laine8210-May-2007 16:54
One of the hardest things in life...but she trusted you to do what was best for her & you have !!!
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