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"Girls say YES . . .

. . . to boys who say NO".

A popular anti-draft poster in the late '60s.

Many hometown papers printed the names and mailing addresses of local young men and women who were serving in Vietnam. We seemed to turn a negative corner in late '67 as anti-war sentiment increased. As the war ground on, more and more soldiers received unfriendly mail and an unfriendly reception when they got home. A fellow soldier in Recon got a "care package" from his hometown in California during Tet. It was full of dry dog food and contained a note that said "Since you live like animals and die like animals, you might as well eat like animals, too.". Later in the war, soldiers flew all the way home in jungle fatigues, which caused many confrontations.

When I flew home from Vietnam in late March '68 we landed at Travis AFB, less than 20 miles from my home in Napa, CA. We were put on buses and taken out the back gate because anti-war protesters were blocking the main gate. At Oakland Army Base we were processed and told that it was not recommended that we wear our uniforms off-base in the Bay Area. I thought that was pretty strange, considering that I had just worn a US Army uniform for the last year in someone else's country. I wore my uniform home anyway. Napa was a pretty apolitical place and generally supported the local boys who served. My friends were very supportive of me, if not the war, and I had a pretty sheltered homecoming, unlike many, including some of my friends, who came home to taunts and verbal abuse.


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Robert23-Feb-2013 21:46
My generation treated their best, the worst. And it continues to this day. These Vietnam veterans are our best, not the political left that is ruining this Nation.
Robert23-Feb-2013 21:35
The thing about the Vietnam War was that there was no way for the americans to win.

The above comment is false. The reality is that the United States never brought the full force of war on the communist regimes in southeast asia. It was the left who created the political war where our troops were compromised with "limited rules of engagement" in the incompetent approach of allowing the communist to stage operations from Cambodia and Laos and North Vietnam as "safe zone sanctuaries". They knew they could not win any war on a military full engagment level. But they could always count on the utopian seeking hippies and the Left to insure that the war be waged on the terms of engagement that the communist wanted, which was an ambush and terrorize and run back to the safe haven sanctuaries until the clock ran long enough for the communist in the United States to run the clock out. Our miliatry won virtually every battle, but the Leftists worked so hard to inspire the communists in southeast asia.
MSGParatrooper23-Aug-2012 01:07
I just want to pass on my sincere gratitude for those of you that served and suffered before my time. The Vietnam Veterans and Vietnam Era Veterans that came back to what you all came back to ensured, that the service members of future conflicts would come back to a respected homecoming (at the least) but most always we are greeted with a Hero's welcome. I am proud to be associated with you as a Soldier. Thanks Dave.
C.R. McClain 02-May-2012 19:04
For those of you who served! God Love you!! No matter how you believe you served you did your job and did it well! For that those of us who have a brain in there head! THANK YOU!! In memory of my Bro. Srg. P.D.McClain VM 67-70.
Jim's Atavistic Visions16-Sep-2011 01:34
Very interesting read...brings back memories.
Frank Jencik 27-Feb-2011 21:50
I came home through McChord Airforce Base and Ft Lewis. On the shuttle bus from McChord , protesters at the gate threw rocks and eggs at us.
Strange feeling, forty-eight hours earlier I had been taken out of an ambush by a slick and started on my way home. The whole process seemed strange and I remember feeling quite out of place on my return "to the world".
Gouveia 04-Mar-2010 19:24
I came home from Nam, 9 Jan.1970 in my fatigues , I had no dress uniforms, only fatigues. Too a bunch of some ungrateful Americans, especially the cab driver that drove me to the airport.
Guest2 15-Nov-2009 20:49
Let's not forget the 3 million Vietnamese who found peace in an early grave. While it may be likely the communists could have done that themselves, it surely didn't hurt to accelerate the process with some 21st century weaponry.

We won't even try to assess a dollar figure to what the SE Asian war cost, but it cost less than the current ones.
Henry Rhea29-Jul-2009 05:14
I landed at Travis AFB too. They bussed us to Oakland Army Base where they fitted us with new Class A's complete with all the patches and ribbons and turned me loose about 3 or 4 AM. I lived in West Pittsburg, just over the hills from Oakland and Concord. I walked outside, saw a taxi sitting there, asked him how much to take me home, I think it was about $20, said "All right. Let's go!" Never said another word until time to give him directions to the house when we crossed over the hill between Concord and W. Pittsburg. Paid him off, and stood there in the dark trying to feel what was inside me, looking around the neighborhood, up the drive to the house, feeling empty, nothing. It was as though whatever was inside me was simply shut down. And that was how my entire leave was before reporting in to my next duty station at Ft. Ord. Numb. Somehow unattached to anything around me. And no, we didn't lose the Viet Nam war. Viet Nam was simply one more front in the larger Cold War, a theater of operations much like North Africa was a theater of operations in World War 12, and though we didn't achieve all our objectives in our particular theater of operations, we held world communism at bay there for several years forcing them to concentrate their efforts and resources there instead of in their numerous "wars of liberation" around the world as they would have preferred to have done instead.

We won that larger war, and Viet Nam played a major part in that victory. They saw us go half way around the world, fight the longest most expensive war in our history to that time, and never come close to collapse militarily or economically either one. And not even ten years later the Soviets entered into their own war right on their own eastern border in Afghanistan only to realize some years later that they were simply unable to sustain it.

Those factors had to be strong in Gorbachev's and the Politbor members minds when they decided to fold and disband the Soviet Union.
Guest 07-May-2009 14:08
I read the book 'Citizen Soldiers' some years back, and though it was a different war, the lesson I learned from it applied to all war I think; In battle, soldiers fight for the men along side them and not for ideology or politics. I am still appalled at the treatment of American GI's who come home from unpopular wars. 40 years ago they were victims of ignorance, today it is simply indifference.
Dave Berry20-Feb-2009 22:23
I was lucky to have a supportive community and, most of all, great friends who supported me before, during my tour, and after I came home. Larry saw me through some difficult times and I am eternally grateful.
Larry Hamilton 16-Feb-2009 05:45
I was involved in the peace movement at that time and our perspective was not that we were losing that war. It was our understanding that the VC had been decimated by the Tet Offensive, and that american soldiers, if not their command, had adapted and become extremely effective fighters. It was our understanding that the war was being won, and what was being questioned was "should we win?". Sounds weird to me now. By the way, mine was that door he was banging on that early morning. Will never forget having my best friend back home safe and sound.
Dave Berry16-Nov-2008 05:53
I don't agree that most South Vietnamese wanted Communism. What they wanted was to survive, and they were caught in the middle of the struggle between regimes, countries and ideologies. A lot of Vietnamese put their lives on the line for Americans and most of them were left to fend for themselves when we left.
Guest 16-Nov-2008 05:39
The thing about the Vietnam War was that there was no way for the americans to win. Just as with suicide bombers today, you cannot defeat an enemy where every opponent you attack is more than willing to sacrifice their life to utterly destroy you, not to mention the sheer size of the force we were facing. The terrain was to their advantage, and while there may have been some emigrants from the Communist regime, the majority of the Vietnamese people wanted to be Red. They were not a democracy simply b/c we Americans were there, we just maintained a semblance of it. You cannot change a people who do not wish to be changed.
Dave Berry03-Sep-2008 02:34
John,
American soldiers did not lose the war. We fought bravely and too many of our friends paid the ultimate price. We were winning when you and I and a lot of other guys went home (even if it was hard to tell when we were dodging rockets during Tet). What was lost was the negotiated peace that was designed to save political face without accomplishing long-term results. The politicians got us into the war, tied our hands while we were there, and did a victory lap for the media while American soldiers and Vietnames died.
John McCoy 03-Sep-2008 01:21
In my opinion, we did not lose the war. What American units were in Vietnam in 1975? Just some advisors, a few rear-eschelon units, but to my knowledge, all of the infantry divisions were home by 1972. The Vietnamese had taken over as each American unit returned stateside. It might be more accurate to say we bailed out and the Vietnamese were only able to hang on for about two and a half years. I do agree with Guest's comments about the propaganda war and the exodus of South Vietnamese, and the freedom they enjoyed for 21 years.
J D Hammond 31-Aug-2008 05:23
Howdy from New Mexico, Brother!! Hey, I was raised in Concord..(about 30 miles from you). I too returned via Travis AFB and wore my 'class A' outfit home. Ended up walking through Berkeley in the afternoon...not easy!! Especially since I had awakened to many of the facts regarding that conflict and was myself questioning our mission. My 'position' and location had me very informed while 'in country' and I was still digesting the info. Torn is more like it!!
As I continued to learn more of the 1000 year history of VietNam I realized that I could no longer support the war.The Troops YES...not the war! The Poppy!!! same as Afghanistan currently. Hard Times for all of us!! So many have died since from PTSD causes. Oh, My Brothers (and Sisters) may we find Peace at last.


John McCoy 15-Aug-2008 22:00
Doc,
What kind of shot did the boys who said "No" get after going out with the girls that said yes? For me, I wouldn't touch one of those girls with a ten-foot pole.

Black Lions, Sir!
Guest 01-Aug-2008 06:07
And that's why we lost the Vietnam war. The propaganda war had been lost before the military one was. It took 10 years later, when the exodus of South Vietnamese boat people happened, that the world understood that, no, South Vietnamese do not like communism and in fact, thanks to Americans, South Vietnamese enjoyed 21 years of democracy and freedom (1954-1975)
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