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26-JAN-2012 Marisa

In praise of old-fashioned, personalized handwritten letters. Would you like receiving one?

If you don’t find too boring to read this long post until the end, maybe you can have a little surprise.
I didn’t miss the last train to the new frontier of social communication.
I was there on time; I could have a maybe superficial, but revealing visit of many of its carriages, I looked at the huge crowd of enthusiastic passengers ready to start their trip, carrying their smartphones and i-Pads and other amazing devices I could not identify.
They didn’t notice me, I suppose, since instead of looking around, they seemed to be all very busy typing something on their little keyboards or barely touching their screens.
The sky was full of virtual twittering, even though I could not see any bird.
Everyone seemed to be full of friends.
There was a merry cacophony of monologues. The tickets were sold only online, the clerks had not any pen.
I asked one of them if he had one.
“ A pen? What for?”
I didn’t miss the last train to the new frontier of social communication.
I voluntarily decided to not take it.
I looked at it disappearing toward the horizon in a golden sunset and I waved goodbye, feeling maybe a little more isolated, but relieved.

My troglodytic cave where I want to keep on living serenely is , nevertheless, well equipped with all the comforts we need, definitely is a very cosy cave where a rather well balanced mixture of old-fashioned items cohabitates in a friendly way with what technology has generously produced to make many things so much easier.

I have my collection of real books (yes, they might be a pain in the neck because they take a lot of room, they have the bad habit to attract dramatically a lot of dust, they are occasionally heavy, but I have not been able to leave them for an electronic book reader device, believe me, I have tried, but it made me feel sad and I missed so much the feeling of turning concrete pages of real paper.
Be patient with me, I’m a troglodyte) and I have a lot of pens and paper notebook, even real envelopes and post stamps.
If you have had the tenacity and the kindness of reading until this point, now -at long last- we are approaching the main point.
I have in mind a little project, nothing important actually, just an idea to renew a personalized way of communicating from person to person, a little thing, but unique .
Because what makes the importance of what we do in our communication with others is not the entity of the matter, but the time we dedicate to every single exchange.
What do you receive by real “snail mail” by now? Maybe some bills?
Well, my proposal is to let something different landing to your real mailbox.
If you want to get a real little letter, rigorously handwritten and decorated in a totally personalized way, different for each person, please, help me with this project and send me your postal address.
I’ll write by real mail to all of you, sending a real little letter with something personalized, with a real stamp on a real envelope and it will take all the necessary time to arrive concretely to your hands.
I reassure you, I won’t send you any of my photos, it’s not a self-promotional enterprise ( grin) , I’ll write simply a few handwritten lines, as accurately as I can, on nice writing paper adding maybe a sketch or something, different for each of you, just a kind of personalized greeting card.
For me it would be a kind of very enjoyable exercise of discipline and consistence and then I like writing with a real pen; maybe for some of you it will be fun to get an envelope from Switzerland with a personalized note.
So all what you have to do, if the idea sounds a little appealing for you, is sending me your postal address or any postal address where my message to you can be sent.
Since , as I have written above, I believe in an interconnection of various old and new technology when they are of use for me, I hope to get your messages to my email address and then I’ll answer to your postal address directly with my real letters or cards.

You can find my personal email address in my PBase profile page.
Or you can click here to email me directly


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barbarajoy20-Jun-2015 22:43
A delightful story. My address will arrive via new technology!
Marjan Schavemaker29-Jan-2012 19:57
Great idea, Marisa, I'll write down my address in your guest book. Please give yours, so I can send you a "real" card back! V
teachpeace28-Jan-2012 23:47
What a perfectly charming idea! My address is on the way....
Martin Lamoon28-Jan-2012 19:16
A wonderful idea, best wishes for your project.
Martin
Steve Mockford28-Jan-2012 19:13
A wonderful collage, and a wonderful project Marisa. We encourage our grandchildren to write letters with paper and pen in the hopes that the intimacy inherent in personal letters will live on.
Marcela Mejia Photography28-Jan-2012 18:26
Hi Marisa
I know the marvelous immediacy brought by all amazing new devices and I embrace all that ... but I am also very lucky to be old enough to have known a tweeter free word and the magic of real handwritten letters.
I remember the thrill at the sound of the mailman whistling as he was dropping pure magic in my mailbox.
I was touched by the words of a loved one far away just by the charm of handwritten letters.
The sight of the handwriting was as seeing the person's face, the smell of the paper impreganted with ink would bring fragances from far away environments.
Bless the troglodyte dimension that still strives through the amazing new devices .
Barbara Read and Fred Schaad28-Jan-2012 18:09
I have drafted an e-mail to you, as well. It is a bit of a dilemma knowing the effort, energy and fossil fuels that will be burned to transport the letter overseas. Hmmm, what to do, what to do. It would be a small thing and the plane or boat is probably going to cross with some cargo anyway, so....
Beyer28-Jan-2012 17:21
Hi Marisa. Your image (or may I call it Collage) is warm and beautiful. Allthough I share your interest for paper, pen and books, I think our "battle" is lost. But there will allways be a place for quality snail-mail as kong as people like you are around and keep it alive. Thanks for your efforts! Krs Beyer Voted
Frank Wilson28-Jan-2012 17:11
I'm excited! My mailing address is on the way . . .
Judi Hastings28-Jan-2012 16:54
While I too love "real letters", the electronic age is here. Paperless they say is more green, and electronic is much easier to stay in touch with loved ones around the world. There are pro's and con's to paperless, mostly less paper wasted and tree's killed. That being said, I think all kids should learn to write a real letter (thank you note etc) and post it, wait for a return to reply to have that little thrill of getting something in the mailbox! And as you get older you are happy to have a letter in the mail much better than a bill! Good luck with your project, I shall send you my address and wait patiently for my surprise letter from Switzerland! And, you may even get one returned! :)
William Vogt28-Jan-2012 16:11
I too have loads of paper, pens, pencils, and real books around. I am a traditionalist too. But out of necessity, I have reluctantly joined the electronic bandwagon, forced to by my kids and friends. Great idea Marisa, you'll be hearing from me.
Regards, Bill
Johnny JAG28-Jan-2012 15:59
I too hate the way i-phones have taken over so many peoples lives, to the point they seem to live in a virtual world of their own, things like twitter and facebook have killed the art of conversation. Many of my friends think I'm a dinosaur because I refuse to text, I'd much rather speak to a real person. Have fun with your project.
Johnny
fotabug28-Jan-2012 15:18
I love getting letters!