They say the generation X are part of the "revolving door" generation. Go out into the world for a while and then come home to re-group and try it again. I understand. I am so happy to have her with me, but know that she must go on with her own life. To value her own good opinion, a child has to feel that she is a worthwhile person. She has to have confidence in herself as an individual.
Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.
You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.
It takes a village to raise a child.
~ African Proverb.... and ~Senator Hilary Clinton