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Karl R. Josker | all galleries >> 48 Years With Jennifer > 1969-The Journey Begins
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1969-The Journey Begins

1969-The Journey Begins

This was Jennifer at age 19, in 1969. We met at school in Warrensburg, Missouri. It's funny, forty-eight
years later, this is how she still looks to me.

We married in September, and somehow, she came up with only one rule for our marriage; no matter how angry or mad we might get with each other, we must always sleep in the same bed together, no sleeping on the couch or in the guest bedroom. I don't know how she came up with it, but for a very simple rule it was very effective. She said we had to learn how to fight. Never personal, never hurtful, always on the issue and the issue only. Finally, she taught me to never be a scorekeeper. Never count the times I went out or how often she might do something. Instead, be happy and glad that the other has the opportunity. We've kept the belief in these simple things, and a great life together has resulted. It amazes me to this day that a 19 year old girl would have the wisdom, vision, and confidence to embark upon such a journey, passionately and unafraid.

When getting ready for our wedding, she promised me she would walk with me anywhere, a promise she has kept, from muck-bottomed moose trails in Newfoundland to strolling down the Champs-Elysées in Paris, always enthusiastic, always encouraging, always ready for adventure.

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Guest 25-Feb-2017 22:45
Your love story made me cry...true love forever and ever...Blessings to you both
Guest 01-Nov-2016 03:18
Such a lovely journey and I hope it has many more chapters yet to be written.
Andreas Giebler 21-Apr-2016 22:11
I´m impressed by your story. Live is marvellous and your live together obviously has been so far. Thanks for sharing your story of live. All the best for the future. Stay together!

Best regards
Jona 31-Jan-2015 11:29
I have a few old pictures of Elementary School No. One that was on Busti Ave some years ago.
If i can scan them, I will send them to you.
daniel kestenholz11-Feb-2004 02:01
beautiful work karl - time travel - well done
Don Cuevas24-Jan-2004 01:42
You have made a great and touching testimonial here.