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Patricia Lay-Dorsey | all galleries >> my photo-a-day archives >> 2007 photo-a-day galleries >> photo-a-day December 2007 > on the mend
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08-DEC-2007

on the mend

As you can see in this photo, my brother-in-law John is definitely on the mend. And if he's feeling better that means his beloved wife Lorraine is too. He'll be going home today (Saturday). It's hard to imagine that someone who had coronary bypass surgery on all six arteries a mere five days ago could be ready to leave the hospital so soon, but apparently he is. On Friday they had him up and walking--even climbing stairs--off and on all day.

So often we bemoan the state of our world in 2007. And with good reason. We still have a lot to learn about living together as one human family, not to mention how to treat the Earth with the care and respect she needs and deserves. But when it comes to advances in medicine, we are light years ahead of where we were even a decade ago. These advances show up dramatically in areas like cardiology. Imagine the people you know who would be alive today if they had been able to undergo surgeries like the one John and a number of our very own PBasers have undergone successfully. So many of us have lost loved ones to heart attacks. In my family alone I lost my maternal grandfather, one uncle and two first cousins, one of whom died as a young man back in the 1970s. John was saying today that they recommend men get regular stress tests after the age of 50. With women the age goes up to 60. For conditions like his blocked arteries, that is the test of choice. EKGs can miss it altogether.

How grateful I am to be alive during this time of radical change. And because of these changes, my dear brother-in-law John is alive today.

To change the subject completely, on Friday evening I added five more images to my list of submissions to the 2007 Black and White Spider Awards competition. CLICK HERE to see them.

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Guest 10-Dec-2007 21:30
Excellent moment. I am charmed with it. V
Ghislaine et Réal Boulet09-Dec-2007 04:02
We can feel love in your beautiful image. Take care of him.
Guest 09-Dec-2007 03:30
That's so good to hear! This is a wonderful photograph full of hope and happiness.
Alejandro09-Dec-2007 01:48
lovely moment very well captured. v
gary becker09-Dec-2007 01:28
This is a wonderful photograph !
Phil Douglis09-Dec-2007 00:56
I echo what Vera has said so beautifully. I am indeed very proud of you, Patricia -- this image is not only rich in human values, as Vera notes -- it is also rich in spontaneity. It is the slight blur in the face that makes this image shout to us that John is truly on the mend. You abstract his wife beautifully with shadow -- this is an intimate, very private moment that you have been able to not only capture, but better still, share it with people all over the world who, although they may not know these people, can certainly relate to what they have just gone through together. This kind of image is the essence of photojournalism -- you are telling a story based on spontaneous human emotion and inter-relationship that anyone can understand and relate to. The softly focused equipment on the wall gives the image its context. Although the room is tilted and the subject blurred, the image is NOT technically flawed, as so many photographers might think. These very "flaws" that give the image its sense of reality, immediacy, and emotional impact. Congratulations.
Guest 08-Dec-2007 22:26
Very good news, I am glad for you all!
Guest 08-Dec-2007 13:16
Stunning image! V
Guest 08-Dec-2007 13:14
Oh Patricia, you really do have a way of capturing what Phil calls "human values." This photo evokes so much emotion. The sheer joy of being able to lay side by side, with her head on his shoulder. That precious little moment that we often take for granted. A gift no money could buy. I am also trying to look at your photos from a technical standpoint. I look at what ISO, what speed did you use to make this incredible photo. Again, so much for me to learn here. The fact that the photo is maybe not perfectly sharp doesn't distract from it, but likely adds. The light on his face is more important, as if it is his chance to shine and provide support to her. I am sure this is a turn of the tables given what has happened over the past few days. And, you haven't cut off any limbs. Something I am famous for. It is interesting how you likely feel you have learned from Phil, and now I am learning from both of you. Though I have never met Phil, I like to think this is something that would make him very proud.
Vera
Guest 08-Dec-2007 12:49
beautiful, loving moment.
Ann...08-Dec-2007 10:31
A lovely tender moment - he's looking happy and well, long may it remain so!!
CM Kwan08-Dec-2007 07:32
A good picture comes with a piece of good news, Patricia!
Paco López08-Dec-2007 07:09
Yes! Very good image! V!
Tim O'Donoghue08-Dec-2007 06:33
That's good news, and a great picture to prove it!
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