So I went to one cafe and my friend, having not heard me correctly, went to another. I sat by myself and drank a nice cuppa, and he did to, at the other cafe. I was thinking, hmmmm, did I say this cafe or that one, and lamented the luditishness of my friend who foreswears cell phones. Thankfully, just as I was about to finish up and head to the other cafe, he showed up at the right cafe. Oh, and it turns out that I did specify the right cafe rather than the other cafe...