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04-OCT-2009

my friend Reimar in Westphalia, Germany

When I was a child back in the 1940s, people used to say the time would come when we'd be able to see moving pictures of the person we were talking to on the phone. By the time I was a teen in the '50s, I didn't think that was too cool an idea. I mean, who would want to be seen with your hair up in rollers and your pimples uncovered by make-up? Well, now that day has come thanks to Skype, and at 67 I no longer care how I might look to my callers. Just being able to visit with my friends is good enough for me.

But what I could not have imagined was that Skype would be free -- at least to those of us with broadband internet access -- and that it would mean I could talk with persons from around the world. I guess back in the 1940s and 50s, I couldn't have imagined I'd even HAVE friends who lived in almost every time zone on the planet. Or that I would have met these folks not in person but on the computer. How times have changed!

So, for the past three weekends, Reimar Ott and I have been Skyping one another. We'd already been email buddies but this is SO different. It really is like sitting across the kitchen table and shooting the breeze. And for me, it's been a special joy to see Reimar's progress in recovering from the facial paralysis that came on suddenly on Wednesday, September 9. Each week the left side of his face is becoming more plastic again. This week he could even wrinkle his brow on both sides!

There may be down sides to this technological age, but this is definitey an UP side. Anything that brings people closer together is to be celebrated. Let's hear it for Skype!

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Reimar Gaertner18-Dec-2013 17:11
I just stumbled across "Reimar's" picture. It's a bit of a shock at my age (58) to run into someone with my rather unusual first name. How is he doing?
Reimar
Toronto
http://www.pbase.com/reimar
M Williamson Lebon10-Nov-2009 15:43
Haha, excellent!! V
Keith Goldstein09-Nov-2009 03:21
Wonderful!
Lillian Rodriguez09-Nov-2009 03:04
Hola Patricia!
Excellent shot of your cyberfriend and best wishes for a speedy recovery! And what a great concept Skype is! To think that we can chat with friends/family and hear their voices and also see their faces certainly brings us closer!

Great to see that your creative juices keep flowing with new ideas! V!
Guest 12-Oct-2009 00:31
Patricia,
Just back from an unexpected extended trip home. You inspire me....as always!!! I have never tried Skype. Must do that someday. Nice to know that your friend is seeing progress. Totally freaky thing to happen. Makes me stop and think how I would deal with it. I am sure your friendship is a huge support.
V.
Cindi Smith05-Oct-2009 22:37
Love the image and it wouldn't be my face I'd have problems people seeing...it would be the mounting stuff behind me!!! LOL! Love this!
Ann...05-Oct-2009 07:00
Yes Skype is really brilliant though I haven't tried the video link - yes there are lots of "up" sides to technology but like most things in life it's the bad that seem to get the most publicity.This is a great shot of Reimar. I do hope that he makes a full recovery!
Guest 05-Oct-2009 05:11
Amazing use of technology Patricia, your photo says it all.
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